I have to admit, when my sig other and I got together, we were both so consumed with eachother. We saw each other day in and day out, and now that we have been together for a year, things have changed. I lost my sense of self during the early part of our relationship, and now since we don't spend all the time together, like we did in the beginning, I questioned his intentions or even if he's interested anymore. He's beginning to become more involved with friends and family and I see that I need to start doing other things as well.
So what I can do to gain my sense of self back, but yet avoid losing him? If I start doing things that I normally have not been doing, he may see it as something else, and all I'm doing is trying to do is establish some sense of individuality in the relationship, which is very important for the both of us.