for a while now, past 2-3 months there doesn't seem to be much romance between me and my partner.
we have decided to get married, and are planning to do something soon..but the romance has disappeared.
on his side, he would write poems, sing songs and generally ring/text me a lot? bear in mind this has been a 3 year relationship.
now he has completely stopped..he doesn't do anything romantic any longer. he wrote me a poem 2months ago, that was not as good as what he usually writes.
no flowers, no affection, doesn't really long to see me any more...he's not cheating, i know he loves me...but i've hinted enough times that some romance would be nice.
he says he will but NOTHING. i've told him that i'm upset about it, that i would like to be appreciated, he says he will..NOTHING.
i haven't been taking his calls past few days..whenever he rings,it's always 'have u done this?have u done that?' its always in relation to him.
i feel like he's becoming selfish and i'm getting no attention anymore. so i told him 'i'm not talking to u until you give me some romance'
he just text back saying 'oh.so you're on those vibes again' ...er, what?? does he think it's a phase or a moodswing i'm going through hence he's ignoring my needs?
am i being silly? or do i have a point? girls deserve affection right..why has he stopped..
please help. this is really bothering me.